One of the most important elements in a person’s mindset is: ‘learning to put yourself first.’
Society teaches us that this kind of approach is synonymous with selfishness, pride, infatuation and disrespect for others. The spirit of sacrifice that we saw as an example (perhaps in the family or in those around us) led us to the idea that we must put ourselves in second place to serve others.
We might think it is natural, but on a closer inspection, we may realize that this attitude does not lead us in the direction we want.To always put yourself in the 2nd place means to give up on yourself for others. You will be able to do it for a while, but the question is: how long will you be able to do this? At some point, you will consume your inner resources. Imagine that you are like a vessel of water. You give everyone a drink, but at a moment you won’t have it for yourself! The secret is to get the mindset of successful people.First you give everything you need to yourself, then to others. First you have to achieve, to have from where to offer. You will never be really happy if you do not have enough, but you force yourself to give. First you have to accumulate, to settle, to live, and then you will be able to offer from your overflow.You will become an inspiration.
Don’t try to save others until you save yourself!
Don’t feel guilty if you leave others ‘behind’ for a moment, because you need all the inner power to focus on yourself! After that, you will be able to serve them with the most beautiful results. That feeling of “ I did it!” is priceless.
Set at least 3 priorities that you should respect and that will bring you to the point you want! There are no limits except in your mind! Detach yourself from them!You can do everything you can imagine, if you believe enough in yourself!Focus on what you really want, and when you will be a winner, you will be proud. And those who didn’t believe in you will ask: ‘What’s the secret? I want to know it!’ You will tell them: ‘ Well, I’ve learned to put myself first! When you will do the same, you will be a winner‘ See you soon,
Editor-Rarity News, Psychologist, Author & Entrepreneur