Happiness is the feeling that everyone wants, after which everyone runs. All people want to be happy and if we think about it, the whole meaning of life revolves around happiness. What is it really and how do we get to live it?
When we were kids, we were happy most of the time. Our general state was that of happiness. We played, we enjoyed everything, we smiled, we lived with serenity in every moment. Then, worries, conditioning, responsibilities began … and little by little we started to turn from those happy children into gloomy, upset, worried people, without shine in their eyes and in their souls.
It is obvious that we cannot live our whole life as children, but it is important to know how to balance adulthood with childhood. The inner child lives forever in us. And it is important to manifest this state daily. What do you like to do? What are your hobbies? How do you feel charged with energy? How can you relax?Ideally, even your job should be one in which you can show your talent, because a job that is very demanding or that you don’t like takes a lot of energy and you will feel unhappiness and frustration every day. It is important to understand that no one saves us from our own unhappiness, but we can simply create our happiness through our choices and decisions.You can always change something you don’t like or don’t find yourself in anymore. A job, a relationship, an entourage, an old habit, a lifestyle …Everything is only in our power. You are the captain of the ship.
Ask yourself: What can I change today to be happier? What would make me really happy?
Things are not as complicated as we see them. We just have to look inside ourselves and be honest with ourselves.We can create true happiness because we have the resources within us! It doesn’t matter what it was until now, it matters what it is from now on!
The past can’t be changed, the future is impredictible, but the present is all you can have!
Do the changes now, so the happiness will start to (re)appear in your life!
No one knows better than you what you need. So, you are best able to choose what suits you, what you want, what you want to change in your life and last but not least, to define what makes you truly happy!
You are a force, you can do it! With love,
Diana Pîrje
Editor-Rarity News, Psychologist, Author & Entrepreneur
