Surround yourself with the right people
‘ Tell me who your friends are, so I can tell you who you are, says an old proverb.
If we analyze it well, we will realize that it is true.
Several masters of personal development have come to the conclusion that you are the sum of the 5 people you surround yourself with.
Basically, you become the product of those with whom you spend your time. That’s the reason why I think it is so important to choose carefully the people in your entourage.
Often, we tend to compromise and even if we feel that we do not find ourselves next to certain people, there is no fear of leaving or moving away from them. It is important to understand that we don’t have a special connection with everyone, but we can choose those who share the same values with us. This is not selfishness, but self-respect.
If you are in an environment where you do not find yourself, change it. Go where you feel you belong, where you feel loved, respected and valued. Only in that energy will you be able to grow and evolve beautifully. The power of the community is immense as energy, and it can raise you or put you down. It’s just our choice of who we spend our time with.
Also, a very important thing is to understand how reciprocity works. People don’t ask for what they need from others, and then they get frustrated and upset that they don’t receive what they need. Communicate what you want, so people can easily understand yourself. Also, learn to ask for what you need. This is the principle of mature and assumed relationships, and quality people understand and apply it.
The same thing is also available in couple relationships.
You don’t have to sit next to a partner if you don’t feel like you resonate with him, if he doesn’t bring out the best in you. And we have no reason to feel guilty about our choices. It is not our duty to save those around us, but to choose those with whom we feel happy.
We are born alone, we die alone, but we complete in relationships. That is why we must have relationships that are as conscious as possible, as meaningful as possible, in order to have a quality life.
Build with those who are on the same wavelength as you and you will have a beautiful evolution!
- So what kind of people do you want around you?
- Who do you spend your time with?
- Do you feel the need to make certain changes related to your entourage?
I leave you with these 3 questions, and if you feel the need to make some changes in your life, do them!Only through change can we evolve!
With love,
Diana
Editor-Rarity News, Psychologist, Author & Entrepreneur
