In this article, I set out to write about the rules of a happy life. Both from my experience, but also from the experience of the clients I work with. I realized that happiness is not something impossible, as it seems to be believed… We can have happiness if we follow these simple rules:
1. Put yourself first
Putting yourself first is the most important thing of all. So that you can provide support, love, joy and wonderful moments, it is important to be well, first of all. Only when you are in a state of resource you can be good to yourself and good to everyone around you. When in the airplane the oxygen masks fall off, you put on your mask first, then you help the others. This principle it would be good to apply in everyday life as well. First it is important to take care of our needs and desires and then we will be able to fully offer our love. When you are happy with yourself, you are happy with everyone around you. Your inner strength is vital to create a life that will fulfill you!
2. Believe in yourself and your desires! (faith animates everything)
Believing in yourself unconditionally is an invaluable gift! The most beautiful thing in the world is to believe in yourself and in what you want, because sincere desires are always fulfilled, and when they are fueled by strong faith, magic occurs! We are the first to believe in ourselves and our dreams, because they bring us great happiness and satisfaction! The process of creation brings a lot of happiness and when we focus on this, we will notice that we do not even want to reach the result at any cost, because day by day we enjoy every brick we put in our dream.
3. Learn to love and accept yourself unconditionally!
“Love is a miraculous cure. Self-love brings miracles into our lives. ”- Louise L. Hay
What could be more beautiful than to love and care for yourself, regardless of the situation? This is not selfishness at all, but it is the most beautiful gift we can give ourselves. Others will love us as much as we love ourselves. One of the hardest topics for every person is love and unconditional acceptance of oneself. We are our biggest critics, instead of our biggest supporters. Start by admiring your qualities and achievements and making a list of them. Imagine that now you are your good parent who supports you and loves you unconditionally and understands you without blaming you for your shortcomings. How can you confirm yourself the love? What are some things you can do for yourself so that you can prove that you are your biggest supporter?
4. Don’t listen to the criticism of those around you – you are just a mirror to them
Those around you will always project their own reality on you and will judge you through their own filters. Therefore, the best advice I can give you is: Don’t listen to what others say! You are the most important person and your inner truth is the only one you have to take into account. I know a lot of valuable people with brilliant ideas who were discouraged by the opinions of those around them and wasted their talent and opportunities.
5. Enjoy the little things, keeping your vision and focus on your great dreams
Many times, we end up going through life as robots focused on goals, without enjoying what is around us. The result is important, but the journey is more important. If you liked the process, happiness will always be present in your soul, as something alive. That’s why it’s important to focus on what we want, but to take a break from time to time and enjoy everything around us. Have small pleasures, small joys and you will see that every day becomes more beautiful! When we offer rewards, our long-term motivation will always be high, so that we can complete our projects.
The sequel will appear in the next article! Check it out!
